Calm the Chaos
Say What Matters
Emotional Safety
Co-Parenting is not easy
Turn Tense
Co-Parenting Conversations into Cooperative Progress
One Conversation At A Time
Co-Parenting Isn’t Easy
Emotions run high, priorities sometimes clash and every conversation carries the weight of your past and your child’s current and future wellbeing.
better-us.ai helps co-parents de-escalate, validate and refocus… one conversation at a time.
Move past the tension
Create productive and emotionally safe communication
Establish and keep boundaries while finding a path forward for your child’s wellbeing
The 3 Phases of Emotional Healthy
Co-Parenting Communication
PHASE 1
Calm The Chaos
Create Stability
in the Conflict
Learn how to stay calm, even when tensions rise.
With better-us.ai, you’ll receive instant support in the heat of emotionally charged moments
So you can protect your peace, respond instead of react, and create a calmer environment for your child.
PHASE 2
Say What Matters
Communicate With
Clarity and Purpose
You don’t just want to be heard—you want what you say to matter.
better-us.ai helps you express what’s important in ways that land, using emotional validation and boundary-aligned language to reduce conflict and move forward constructively.
PHASE 3
Emotional Safety
Build a Strong,
Secure Foundation
Every conversation influences the emotional environment your child
grows up in.
better-us.ai helps you and your co-parent communicate with clarity, empathy and consistency—so your child feels safe, supported, and shielded from unnecessary tension. Because emotional safety isn’t a luxury—it’s a need.
Key Features Tailored for
Co-Parenting Success
Stay Calm in the Moment
Real-time, science-backed prompts to prevent spirals of blame, reactivity or defensiveness.
Communicate Without Compromising
Validate your co-parent’s perspective while holding clear, healthy boundaries.
Model Secure Attachment
Use emotionally intelligent language that fosters emotional safety for your child.
SAGE Framework
Secure Attachment, Alignment of Conscious/Subconscious, Growth Mindset and Empathy—woven into every AI prompt.
Emotional Safety Roadmap
Set clear boundaries, clarify expectations, and focus conversations on the present—not the past.
What You’ll Gain
Tools for emotionally charged conversations
Guidance on emotional regulation and boundary setting
A strategy for co-parenting collaboration, not conflict
Greater consistency, trust, and calm for everyone involved
Whether you’re responding to a message you’ve just received or trying to find the right words before you hit send, Sage (your AI guide) helps you stay calm, clear and emotionally grounded—even in the hardest moments.
How It Works: Real-Time Support for Real-Life Conversations
better-us.ai provides unbiased, emotionally intelligent support—line by line.
Scenario 1:
You Received a Message &
Need Help Crafting a Reply
Real User Message Received:
“I can’t believe you didn’t respond again. I’m always the one chasing you for answers—do you even care how this affects Max?”
Better-Us.ai guides you through:
Step 1: Emotional Validation & Self-Check
🌿 “That message may have stirred feelings of guilt, pressure, or being unfairly blamed. Let’s take a moment to notice what it brings up for you and what matters most—your child, your boundaries, or being understood?”
Step 2: Message Analysis
🚫 “I can’t believe you didn’t respond again.”
→ Expresses fear of abandonment, but may provoke defensiveness.
🚫 “Do you even care how this affects Max?”
→ A painful accusation often rooted in unmet needs for reassurance and shared responsibility.
Step 3: AI-Supported Response
🌳 “I hear that you’re feeling overwhelmed and needing more communication around parenting decisions. I care deeply about Max too, and I want us to find a way to co-parent that feels fair and supportive for both of us.”
✨ Then you’re invited to review, refine, or reframe with further help if needed.
You Can Lead with Calm, Even When Emotions Run High.
Co-parenting with someone who’s anxious or overwhelmed isn’t easy -
but better-us.ai helps you respond with clarity and compassion.
Because being a steady presence isn’t just about keeping peace -
it’s how you lead with love, for yourself and for your child.
Scenario 2:
You Want to Send a Message
But Don’t Want It to Escalate
User’s Original Message Draft:
““Are you serious right now? You were supposed to pick up Max at 6. It’s almost 7. No call, no text.”
better-us.ai helps you transform it:
Step 1: Clarify the Core Message & Emotional Needs
🌿 “What matters most—accountability, reassurance, or better communication next time? Let’s get clear before we reframe.”
Step 2: Line-by-Line Review
🚫 “Are you serious right now?”
→ Triggers defensiveness.
✅ “It’s almost 7. No call, no text.”
→ Useful factual statement.
Step 3: Warmed-Up Rewrite
🌳 “Hey, I was worried when we didn’t hear from you. Can you give me a quick update next time? Max was really looking forward to seeing you.”
🌿 “Want to tweak it further? I’ve got your back.”
When you communicate with emotional intelligence, you lead with intention—not reactivity.
Tools like better-us.ai help you turn raw emotion into real connection, so you can express yourself clearly, support your own peace of mind and model healthy communication for your child.
Why This Matters
Co-parenting isn’t just about logistics:
It’s about modelling emotional maturity and creating secure, respectful communication.
better-us.ai helps you pause, reflect and respond with clarity so you can protect peace, build trust and set a stable tone for your family.
Try It For Yourself!
🌿 This is your chance to feel truly seen, heard and empowered to transform your relationships—and yourself.
Enter your details to access your 10 free chats and then type ‘Begin’ in the chat when you’re ready to take the first step toward change.
After your free credits:
🌿 You can continue for as little as $0.37 per message, or
🌿 Choose unlimited support for just $32.50/month.
No pressure. Just support when you need it most.
Let’s start this journey together. 🌱
Transform Your Communication...
FEEL SEEN & HEARD
Create Emotional Safety & Security For Your New Family Dynamic
Real results
Real Stories
This Is What Is Included
Here's what you get:
Sage, your communication coach (on demand support is priceless)
Weekly Group Coaching
Valued at $5000
Beautiful Boundaries Journal
Valued at $99
Emotional Intelligence Workbook
Valued at $99
It’s the cost of one session with a professional therapist.
"Best decision ever!"
"It truly lives up to its name, helping me create a better us."
better-us.ai
Your #1 on demand communication support
“You are one decision away from a
completely different life.”
Mel Robbins - Author of the Let Them Theory
BONUS GIFTS WITH YOUR PURCHASE
Your Journey, Supported:
Exclusive Group Coaching Bonus
🌿 As a bonus with your purchase, you’ll gain access to exclusive group coaching sessions—a supportive space to share stories, exchange insights, and connect with a community of like-minded individuals.
Led by experts, these sessions will help you confidently navigate, ensuring you feel supported and empowered every step of the way as you transform your communication and relationships.
Transform Your Boundaries
with Ease
🌿 Included with better-us.ai, the Beautiful Boundaries Journal is your guide to defining, expressing, and honouring healthy boundaries.
This thoughtfully designed journal empowers you with guided exercises, thought-provoking prompts, and reflections to gain clarity, build confidence, and create deeper, more meaningful connections in your relationships, all while staying true to your needs.
Boundaries create confidence and a sense of stability in your relationships.
Elevate Your Emotional Awareness and Strengthen Connections
🌿 As part of your better-us.ai experience, the Emotional Intelligence Workbook helps you uncover the power of understanding your emotions and those of others. Filled with practical exercises and insightful prompts, this workbook empowers you to deepen self-awareness, build emotional resilience, and foster healthier relationships.
Whether navigating challenges or improving day-to-day interactions, you’ll gain tools to respond with confidence, compassion, and clarity.
Support Between the Sessions
That Matter Most
At better-us.ai by Innate Perspectives, we deeply value the role of trained human professionals. Counsellors, coaches, and therapists offer something irreplaceable—real-time empathy, clinical insight and the gift of being truly seen.
But we also know that the hardest moments rarely wait for the next appointment.
That’s where better-us.ai steps in.
We’ve spent years researching, testing, and refining countless communication models, therapeutic techniques, and emotional frameworks.
Through this journey, we uncovered what truly works and distilled it into a responsive, real-time system you can access whenever you need support not instead of professional help, but alongside it.
No more spiralling after a difficult message.
No more overthinking how to reply.
No more regretting what you said in the moment.
better-us.ai is your calm in the conflict, helping you practise the emotional clarity and secure communication that makes therapy work in real life.
Lead the Conversation.
Be the Co-Parent You’re Proud Of.
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